What is Anal August?

Anal August is a celebratory month dedicated to exploring and embracing anal play. This month-long event encourages people to learn, discuss, and indulge in the pleasures of anal stimulation. It’s a time to break down taboos, promote safe practices, and celebrate the diversity of sexual experiences. Let’s dive into what Anal August is all about and how you can make the most of it.

 

Anal August is About Education

At its core, Anal August focuses on education and communication. Many people hold misconceptions or reservations about anal play due to lack of knowledge or societal stigma. This month presents a fantastic opportunity to learn about the anatomy involved, the types of pleasure that can be experienced, and the best practices for safety and comfort. Books, articles, videos, and workshops become invaluable resources during this time, offering insights and practical advice.

One of the primary goals of Anal August is to foster open conversations. Honest discussions about preferences, boundaries, and desires can significantly enhance any sexual experience. Whether you're a complete novice or someone with experience, talking openly with your partner(s) or participating in online forums can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying exploration. These conversations help normalise anal play, reducing any feelings of embarrassment or shame.

 

Safety First

Safety and preparation are key components of enjoying anal play. Understanding the importance of lubrication, starting slowly, and using appropriate toys can make the experience more enjoyable and comfortable. High-quality, water-based lubricants are essential as they reduce friction and enhance sensations. Beginners may want to start with smaller toys or fingers before gradually progressing to larger toys or penetration. Anal training kits, which include a series of increasingly sized plugs, can also be helpful.

Exploring different types of anal play can add variety and excitement. Anal massage, often known as "rimming," involves stimulating the external area around the anus with fingers, mouth, or toys. This type of play can be incredibly pleasurable due to the high concentration of nerve endings in the area. Penetrative play, with toys, fingers, or a partner, can stimulate the prostate (for those who have one), leading to intense orgasms. Prostate massagers are specifically designed to target this gland, providing unique and powerful sensations.

 Location, Location, Location

Experimenting with various positions can also enhance the experience. Some people find that certain positions make anal play more comfortable or pleasurable. For example, lying on your side with knees drawn up can provide a relaxed angle for penetration. Alternatively, being on your hands and knees or standing bent over a surface can offer deeper penetration and different sensations.

 

Finding what works best often involves some trial and error, making communication even more crucial. Anal August also emphasises the importance of aftercare. Post-play care includes checking in with your partner, cleaning the area thoroughly, and perhaps enjoying some comforting activities together. Aftercare reinforces the bond between partners and ensures both physical and emotional well-being.

Anal August is a month to celebrate the joys and nuances of anal play. It's an invitation to educate yourself, communicate openly, and explore new dimensions of pleasure. By prioritising safety, consent, and mutual satisfaction, anyone can enjoy anal play and enrich their sexual experiences. So, embrace Anal August with curiosity and enthusiasm. Enjoy the journey of discovery and the delightful pleasures it brings!

 

This article was compiled by our resident expert and scientist, Ami Reid, CEO of The Quiet Achiever. The Quiet Achiever is New Zealand's only women owned and operated sexual wellness store that sells only 100% body-safe toys and tools to women and couples. You can shop their products or learn more here or by following the link below:

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